Each
one of us desires that we put on the “new person” and begin to walk the
new way of showing our love towards them. Basically, there are no
certain established ways for the guys to show to their girlfriend how
much love would mean to them. Yes, there are a lot of books, movies,
newspaper articles, talks and speeches regarding this matter but still,
it didn’t totally solve and suggest such a thing for the mere fact that
once we are to show something, it can not be imitated from somebody but
rather goes back to our own self. Showing our love is too subjective and
personal and for that reason, I couldn’t cite any of those sources I
stated above but rather from a very reliable source of all – my own
personal experience on this matter.
We
all have our own share of difficulties. As we go up the ladder of
growth it becomes bigger. Our initial reaction is to back out from them,
to waver, to quit because most of us guys are not that open when it
comes into showing and expressing our emotions or feelings towards
ladies. So, what would then be my ways? There is only one way I could
suggest but it would involve a lot of things that goes with it. It’s
just so simple… BE WITH HER ALWAYS.
These
are just four letter words or phrase but then, it involves a lot of
things. Man, as a person, never reveals himself in isolation but always
in his togetherness with others. The indubitable fact is that human
existence is always an existence of relationships.
Being
with her always involves your willingness to listen to her at all times
may it be of sense or no sense at all. Your willingness to listen
clearly speaks and shows that you care for her at all and that you are
with her. When one starts to listen, his or her attention is focus on
you and that the one who speaks becomes the center of the others
attention too. In such a way, both of them could acquire what we call a
sense of a good communication at all. When both of them have this kind
of setting, both of them would then sense the importance that they both
have and has to share.
Being
with her always involves acceptance. One can not be one with the
beloved if there is no acceptance of and from each other. When one
accepts, that means he or she has nothing to hide anymore from the
other. Through acceptance one has no control or does not hesitates to
tell whatever he or she had been doing since there is already the
presence of self-esteem being develop. When both of them learn to accept
each other, they also learn to be closer with each other and that they
build more self confidence in them.
Being
with her always allows the two of them to discover new things and
experiences that they both could share in their togetherness. When the
started to discover things among themselves may it be good or bad, they
also started to show each other how much their love really means for
each other.
I
believe, that with their togetherness would clearly explains and add
their knowledge on resolving conflicts they met along the way and that
would strengthen more of that what we call love they wanted to share and
live forever.
Things will never be good
It hurts so much
This friend thing is hard to do
Because you've changed a bunch
You're nothing like you used to be
That bothers me a lot
I wish you would just act normal
But you're not
Sometimes I just want to strangle you
Sometimes I just want to yell
That would only make things worse
So I hold back, but someday I may not do so well
Why do you have to be so stupid?
Why do you have to act so weird?
All this is driving me nuts
This is what I most feared
I don't want you back
I just want to be your friend
But I don't think that can happen
Because this will take a while to mend
You don't have to act completely different
Just because we're not going out
I wish you would just be yourself
That ever happening is something I doubt
Does
she love you? How do you know for sure? Is there a way to know for
sure? Of course it is and it’s not that complicated. Signs are there,
you just have to see them. Misery, frustration, anger and all the other
negative emotions are all different in their own way but happiness, joy
and love are all the same. All women that truly love their men are the
same. Here are a couple of “signs” to let you know if your girlfriend is
in
love with you. I call them “signs” because they aren’t something that
is visual, they are more than that - it’s something that comes from
within her, from her heart. 
Each
one of us desires that we put on the “new person” and begin to walk the
new way of showing our love towards them. Basically, there are no
certain established ways for the guys to show to their girlfriend how
much love would mean to them. Yes, there are a lot of books, movies,
newspaper articles, talks and speeches regarding this matter but still,
it didn’t totally solve and suggest such a thing for the mere fact that
once we are to show something, it can not be imitated from somebody but
rather goes back to our own self. Showing our love is too subjective and
personal and for that reason, I couldn’t cite any of those sources I
stated above but rather from a very reliable source of all – my own
personal experience on this matter.
I close my eyes
